What do guys consider clingy

Then comes the double, triple, quadruple texts, the multiple phone calls, and checking to see if you've looked at their Instagram story, which, of course, would mean that you are on your phone, just simply ignoring them.

And when you do finally respond When you're secure in a relationship, you have no problem letting bae go off and do their thing while you do yours. But, those who are overly clingy may feel the need to follow their significant other around everywhere.

If they meet you outside of your class once a day, that's cute, but doing it after every period is a little bit overkill. And if you tell bae you're going hanging with your friends tonight and they show up, you may have an issue.

In fact, if you say you have plans without them, they actually get mad, and might even start a fight over it. Instead, they should embrace that you have friendships that exist outside of your relationship. If it makes you happy, it should make them happy. If you're in a secure relationship, they should trust that you wouldn't do anything to jeopardize that.

If not, it may be a sign to call it quits. You know they spend hours on Instagram looking to see what you're up to. God forbid you like another person's sexy bathing suit shot Or, if you end up in someone else's Instagram story Nothing can save you from their wrath at that point.

You head to your favorite sandwich shop and they're there. You end soccer practice and they're waiting in the parking lot. If your bae is following you around, that's a big red flag. This also goes for Find My Friends.

But as long as you keep feeding off of each other's energy, the intensity will build—and nobody will end up face-down in AstroTurf. The problem with acting clingy is that it puts your guy on the defensive. Can it go both ways? Guys can be clingy, too. But that's not what we're concerned with here. We're addressing those ladies who come on too fast, wrap up too hard, and don't let go.

That's not you, right? To find out for sure, read on for the behaviors that can make or break a relationship. Cool: Leaving your panties at his place Clingy: Leaving your toothbrush at his place. Strategically forgetting some lacy lingerie is a sexy way to say, "Don't forget about the awesome night we had.

Give him an opportunity to say yes. Then he won't feel like you're forcing yourself into his life. Cool: Sympathizing with his dislike for his ex-girlfriend Clingy : Expressing disdain for his attractive female colleague. He hates his ex? Fine—then you can, too. But if he has professional respect for a busty colleague who wears killer heels, you just have to accept it.

That shouldn't be a problem if you trust him, but if you're feeling insecure, just talk to your dude. But don't put him on the defensive: "I feel uncomfortable because she's so pretty" is a lot better than "That girl Tammy seems like a bitch. Cool: Turning down a friend's invite because you've already made plans with your guy Clingy : Blowing off your friends every time your guy casually suggests hanging out.

You know what's sexy? Unless your guy's a control freak, he wants you to have a life that runs smoothly, even when he's not dictating the next move. It's okay to occasionally have other plans. But if you frequently fantasize about trading in your guy for a new love interest, it's a sign that you're just not that into him anymore. Do a self-check before you text. Why are you about to send that message? If you have something to say, send away.

But if it's simply to check up on him or find out where he is, think twice. Obviously, if he's gone MIA you have every right to inquire. But if it's been an hour since you last spoke and you need to know his status yet again, that's clingy. Put the phone down!